Tell him you’ve decided to be exclusive, and you hope he will too because you really see this going somewhere. If he’s seeing other people, ask him to stop. You want to show that you’re serious about this guy. If you’re still seeing other people, stop. If it’s still early days in your relationship, you need to make sure he values you as a prize to be won and cherished rather than a Good Enough relationship until something better comes along. Let him know you want to date exclusively. Wife Material Tip #1: Focus on Exclusivity On the contrary I simply want you to be yourself, but implement a few strategies that will make him start seeing you as wife material. Now, in no way am I encouraging you to manipulate your man to get him to propose. That may be why he hasn’t popped the question, even though you’re ready to answer it. They may need more time to mentally shift from one stage of the relationship to another. Women easily and eagerly make the transition from one phase of their relationship to another. Now it’s time for the next phase of your relationship: potentially becoming engaged and getting married. From there, maybe you moved in together or started saying I love you. You may have started out casually dating and then decided to be exclusive and call one another boyfriend/girlfriend. The fact is: your relationship has evolved over time. That doesn’t mean marriage is permanently off the table…it just means you may need to position yourself as wife material to get the ball rolling. Likely, your man couldn’t even quantify what makes you wife material.

That you make his heart go pitter-patter. It could be that you’re kind to everyone you meet. There’s a certain something that makes him feel like you would make an excellent wife…and maybe mother to his children. But it’s more than just being your boyfriend for years. When a guy says you’re wife material, he typically sees the potential for a (very) long-term relationship with you. It’s not even a woman who will eagerly await her man by the front door with his pipe and slippers (at least, not anymore). It is not a woman who hooks up with lots of men. While what constitutes a woman being wife material will vary slightly from man to man, we can right away discount what it is not: Being wife material means a happily ever after ending!

What men want in a wife